You’re Engaged… Now What?

A cool-girl guide to life after the “yes”

So… you’re engaged.
Your phone is buzzing, your ring is catching the light at every angle, and suddenly everyone wants to see that hand.

Once the initial sparkle settles (just slightly), many newly engaged women ask the same question:

“What do I actually do now?”

As jewellers, we see this moment every day — and trust us, there are a few important (and fun) steps worth doing straight away. Here’s our cool-girl guide to navigating life post-proposal, with confidence, care and a little bit of polish.

Step One: Get Your Ring Insured (Yes, Really)

Before the manicures, brunches and Instagram uploads — insurance comes first.

Your engagement ring is not just sentimental; it’s a valuable piece of fine jewellery. Accidents happen, and insurance gives peace of mind from day one.

What to do:

• Have your ring professionally valued

• Insure it for loss, theft and accidental damage

• Update the valuation every few years as values change

At Fogal & Barnes, we provide detailed insurance valuations, so your ring is properly protected from the very beginning.

Cool girl rule: loving your ring also means looking after it.

Step Two: Book That Manicure

Let’s be honest — your hands are now centre stage.

Whether you’re into:

• Soft nude tones

• Milky whites

• Barely-there pinks

A fresh manicure makes your ring look even more beautiful (and timeless in photos).

Top tip: Neutral shades age better in engagement photos and won’t clash with your ring or outfit choices later on.

Step Three: Capture the Moment (But Make It Chic)

You don’t need a full photoshoot — but a few beautiful images of your ring in natural light will be something you’ll treasure forever.

Ideas we love:

• By a window with morning light

• A casual coffee-and-ring flatlay

• A simple hand shot with relaxed styling

Less posed, more effortlessly engaged.

Step Four: Learn How to Care for Your Ring

Your engagement ring is designed to be worn — but a little care goes a long way.

Jeweller-approved habits:

• Remove your ring for gym sessions, cleaning and gardening

• Avoid harsh chemicals and skincare residue

• Bring it in for professional cleaning and checks

At Fogal & Barnes, we always recommend a regular check of claws and settings — especially if you wear your ring every day.

Step Five: Start Dreaming… Gently

You don’t need to plan a wedding overnight — but it is the perfect time to start imagining what comes next.

Many brides:

• Explore wedding ring styles that sit perfectly with their engagement ring

• Consider bespoke wedding bands

• Think about stacking rings for the future

We love helping clients create pieces that feel uniquely them, not rushed or trend-led.

Final Thought: Enjoy Being Engaged

Being engaged is a season — not a task list.

Wear your ring.
Admire it.
Get used to saying “fiancé”.
Let yourself enjoy the feeling before the planning begins.

And if you ever need guidance, advice or simply want your ring checked or cleaned, our door is always open in Harrogate.

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Fogal & Barnes Fine Jewellers of Harrogate
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