Our guide to discoverring their size?

How to Find the Right Ring Size Without Spoiling the Surprise

By Mona – Owner, Fogal & Barnes Fine Jewellers of Harrogate

Choosing an engagement ring is one of the most meaningful decisions you'll ever make. Whether you're planning a surprise proposal or exploring rings as a couple, one crucial detail should never be overlooked: getting the ring size just right.

At Fogal & Barnes Fine Jewellers, located in the heart of Spa Town Harrogate, we understand that this small detail can make a world of difference. A beautifully chosen ring should not only reflect your love but fit perfectly from the very first moment.

This guide is designed for everyone—whether you're proposing to your girlfriend, boyfriend, fiancé, partner, husband or wife-to-be. We proudly serve all couples and are passionate about helping you find the perfect ring that fits your love story and lifestyle.

Ask Friends or Family for Help

Often the simplest—and most discreet—approach is to ask someone close to your partner. A trusted friend, sibling, or parent might already know their ring size. If not, they can subtly gather this information during a shopping trip or through casual conversation.

Remember…many loved ones are thrilled to play a part in helping you plan a proposal and will take great care not to spoil the surprise.

Borrow a Ring They Already Wear

If your partner wears rings on their ring finger, consider borrowing one temporarily. Be sure to check that the ring is worn on the correct hand and finger, as sizes differ between left and right hands.

Once you have it, bring it into our Harrogate showroom. Our expert team can measure it accurately to determine the appropriate size.

Trace the Ring

If borrowing the ring isn’t possible, you can carefully trace the inside and outside of the ring on a piece of paper. Alternatively, you can press it into a soft material like soap or clay to create an impression. Bring this in-store and our jewellers can use the outline or mould to estimate the size.

Use a Ring Sizing Tool at Home

Ring sizing tools are inexpensive and easy to use. We offer complimentary ring sizers in-store or can send one directly to you. If you feel confident, you can try to measure your partner’s finger when they're asleep or distracted—but be cautious, as this can be risky if they're a light sleeper.

You can also use a printable sizing chart alongside one of their existing rings.

Make an Educated Guess

If all else fails, making an informed guess is perfectly acceptable. In fact, it's quite common. When in doubt, choose a slightly larger size. A ring that's a bit too big can often be worn on a different finger until resized.

At Fogal & Barnes, we offer expert resizing services. Rest assured, we will ensure the final fit is perfect once the proposal has taken place.

Consider Their Lifestyle

Lifestyle plays an important role in ring sizing and comfort. If your partner leads an active lifestyle—such as playing sports, working with their hands, or in a medical or culinary field—they may prefer a snug fit to avoid slipping.

On the other hand, for those with less physical routines, a slightly looser fit may be more comfortable for daily wear. The width and design of the ring can also affect how it fits, which is something we can help guide you through during your appointment.

Professional Ring Sizing Tips

• Measure at the right time of day. Fingers tend to swell throughout the day, so evening is best for accuracy.
• Account for knuckle size. Ensure the ring will fit over the knuckle but still sit comfortably at the base.
• Consider the ring’s width. Wider bands often require a slightly larger size than slimmer ones.

Our jewellers are always available to offer advice and ensure a secure, comfortable fit.

Inclusive Engagement Ring Consultations

At Fogal & Barnes, we believe that love is love. We proudly welcome all couples and provide a warm, inclusive environment where you can explore our collection at your own pace. Whether you’re shopping on your own, planning a surprise, or visiting as a couple, we ensure a personalised, confidential experience every time.

Discover Your Perfect Ring

Once you’ve determined the right size, the next step is choosing a ring that reflects your partner’s unique personality and your shared journey. At Fogal & Barnes Fine Jewellers, we offer a carefully curated collection of engagement rings in Harrogate, including timeless classics, ethical diamonds, vintage designs, and bespoke commissions.

Every ring is crafted with care, precision, and love—just like the relationships they represent.

We invite you to book a private appointment to explore our selection, discuss design ideas, and find the ring that will make your proposal truly unforgettable.

Book Your Consultation

We're here to support you at every step—from sizing to proposal.

• Visit our showroom in Harrogate, Yorkshire
• Book a private consultation online or by phone
• Call us directly at 07535469810
• Schedule an appointment via our online booking system 

Thank you for considering Fogal & Barnes Fine Jewellers for this very special chapter in your life. We look forward to welcoming you soon and helping you choose a ring that will be cherished forever.

With love,
Mona